Haha, truly one of the most loaded dating questions…I think I only had the “numbers" talk with my first and second boyfriends. I never asked any other partner after that (and they never asked me, which I was fine with). I’ve liked having a “don’t ask, don’t tell" policy. I’m all for being open and having honest communication about sex, but I agree with you that the number of previous partners isn’t really relevant.

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